Love is a complex feeling.

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Canon Love (Photo credit: Francesca Special K)

 

Love is a complex feeling.

 

Love is kind

 

Gentle,

 

Understanding,

 

Open,

 

Honest

 

Compassionate

 

Mutual

 

Concern and consideration

 

Listening to each other

 

Kind words

 

Smiles

 

Happiness

 

Desire

 

Supportiveness

 

Trust.

 

Love is more than a feeling it is also a state of being.

 

Love consists of;

 

Feelings of safety

 

Feeling happy,

 

Feeling supported

 

Feeling needed

 

Needing someone else

 

Showing respect

 

Sharing only kind words

 

Smiling from your heart

 

Showing each other kindness

 

Trusting each other no matter what

 

Sharing, everything…there is no “What is mine is mine and what is your is mine” in a REAL relationship,

 

Love is not;

 

Hatred

 

Mean words that cut like a knife

 

Sadness that breaks your heart and makes you miserable

 

Distrust that eats at you daily

 

Dislike and disdain

 

Cheating, whether it be physical or emotional

 

Lies, even the little white ones and the ones that you don’t tell because you think you’re not lying if you just keep quiet,

 

Love isn’t screaming at someone

 

Making them feel worthless,

 

Accusations that are the farthest from the truth

 

Hurtfulness

 

Taking out your misery on the one you supposedly love

 

Rolling away every night

 

Not being intimate

 

Making your love feel like no matter how much they give up of themselves they will never be good enough for you.

 

Love is not expecting

 

The other to lose their backbone

 

To not stand up for themselves

 

To take away their pride

 

To listen to you put them down and expect them to accept it and still love you.

 

Love is supposed to be pure and amazing NOT shaky and scary.

 

Love isn’t supposed to make you lose yourself.

 

Love isn’t supposed to be one sided, with one giving up everything they have and care about to make only one person happy.

 

Love is supposed to be two people with an understanding, with feelings of trust and support.

 

Love is not controlling, expecting the other half of your relationship to give all and do all and sit and wait all the time while you live your life and they sit There alone,

 

Miserable,

 

Unhappy,

 

Hating themselves, wanting to die, wishing it would happen because they know the only way out of their miserable existence is for it all to just end.

 

 

 

 

 

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